We are lovers. We love each other, we love our extended family, we love the beauty in the world around us. We believe love means wanting happiness and health for another. In this sense we love ALL.
We believe in Oneness. We believe that everything is connected, part of the same whole. We believe in finding the balance and compliments in those connections. Unity is the goal. Joining individuals to create a whole - a family that is balanced and united.
We are about HEALTH AND HAPPINESS FIRST! House DV8 is an extremely healthy place. From what we eat, to how we move and speak to one and other. We encourage health in others but also do our best to love individuals where they are. We believe that if you are taking care of your health and happiness then you will not do harm to others because it would not be healthy and happy for you to do so. Know that we want you healthy, even if you don't.
Which brings us to consentuality. We cannot and do not wish to make anyone do anything they do not want, desire, need, recognize as healthy and happy and are prepared for. This includes taking care of one's self. Consentuality is key. Deep Desire is BETTER. Begging, pleading and groveling is impressive!
Growth is necessary. We want to see progress, forward movement. We want to see goals met, desires indulged, limits pushed. We want the journey to be positive and progressive.
Acceptance of others is not hard when you are as twisted as us! We might not share the same fetish, but that does not make yours or mine wrong. Do no harm and we do not judge. There are no Taboos in communication as far as House DV8 is concerned.
Honest and open communication makes most people feel vulnerable. This is why we are patient. It is important that we recognize that none of this deepening can happen if there is not honesty to a fault. This comes when people feel safe and protected. We strive to create that energy.
Education is essential to breaking down boundaries...including the one that keeps people from being honest. Most individuals have something to teach and something to learn. We desire to facilitate this. Leadership and guidance are skills that can be provided as well as learned, depending on the need.
D/s vs Vanilla - We believe that the most basic principle of D/s that makes it more appealing to us than vanilla relationships is the lack of arguing and rehashing of past events. In our home, when there is an issue, it is dealt with as soon as possible. If punishment is deemed necessary it is carried out and then there is forgiveness. It is done. It does not come up again. Living in a D/s relationship means living in a consensual power exchange, with one person Dominant and the other submissive. No one is inferior. A Dominant cannot get his needs met any more than the submissive can without the exchange.
BDSM and Kink are how we live and what we do! It permiates every aspect of our lives. Master Dan has been a Dominant with owned slaves for 30 years...just look how kinky his hair is! danielle has been a submissive for 11 years and a Pro-Domina for 6 years. We live 24/7 in the lifestyle AND we create deviant DV8, Hi-8, and 8mm fetish video!
House DV8 is Hedonism at it's best! Hedonism, without stupidity, danger or carelessness. Hedonism safely, consentually and to whatever extreme you are prepared for! Indulge...and be safe.
